I’ve Sat Where You’re Sitting. I Lived It. And I Healed.
Whatever brought you here tonight, I want you to know something first: I once sat exactly where you’re sitting. Feeling exactly what you’re feeling. And if I made it to the other side, so can you.
After All Of It. Healed, Not Held. I am the Colors of Courage. I am Lotus.
From Surviving to Living
I wasn't defeated. I'm not a victim. It didn't kill me. Every obstacle, every heartbreak, all of it created the woman I am today.
I live a life now that's full of joy and freedom. A life I once didn't even know I could have. A life that pain hid from me for years.
Now I wake up every day wanting to share this joy. I get to cheer people on, strangers and loved ones alike. I get to stand as living proof that there is freedom from that mental prison we lock ourselves in.
I take up space and I know I belong here. I am worthy of every good thing God has for me. I live a life of love, peace, and abundance.
And I wrote it all down, the whole story, in my memoir After All Of It. Because if my story can unlock even one door for you, then every bit of it was worth it.
This Is For You
This is for the little girl who lost her voice, and never realized that every obstacle she faced was a mini trauma forming, quietly stacking up, one on top of another.
The girl who lost her identity somewhere along the way and grew into a woman who lives every single day in survival mode.
The woman who finds it easier to show up for everybody else, while her own wants and needs slide into the back seat without her even noticing.
The child who had big dreams of becoming somebody great. Or maybe the dream was simpler than that: just making it out. Out of the toxic neighborhood. Out of that house.
If any of this feels like I’ve been reading your diary, hear me: you’re not broken. You’re not behind. And you’re not alone. You survived. Now it’s time to heal.
Join the Family
First things first: I’m known for giving the best hugs. So consider this me wrapping you up in the biggest one, because that’s how family gets welcomed around here.
And before anything else, I need you to know something: God didn’t forget you. He didn’t forget your prayers, not one of them. He thinks you are so special that He sent me just for you. You landing here? That’s not a coincidence. That’s an answer.
When you open my emails, here’s what you’ll find: the bestie you always wanted. The cheerleader rooting for you, even on the days you can’t muster those words for yourself.
The big sister reminding you that you matter. That: no matter what the world tells you, you are worth it. Your life is worth it. It’s not too late, and you are not alone. I’m here with you every step of the way.
I won’t pretend it’s always easy. But showing up for yourself every day? So worth it. And somewhere along the way, you’re going to realize what I already know about you: your life has purpose.
Come on in. Arms open. The family’s waiting.
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